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writes:I have 3 class days left in my college semester. There is a girl who sits in front of me in one of my classes. I didn't actually notice how attractive she was until half way through the course, when she changed her hair.Anywhosles, I haven't approached her yet because she seemed too attractive to be single (recently I found out she was), and I can really only get to talk to her after class, but many times she walks fast out of class (I think she has another class to go to) or goes to the restroom.And now there we only have three classes left together. I would've been more comfortable approaching her in the first half of the course, so I could have time to get to know her. But if I approach her now, it would seem a bit odd and it's almost Christmas so most people (including me) just want to get the semester out of the way.So how could I approach her and get to know her in three days (in a few minutes after class) without seeming suspicious and too desperate?For me, I would usually need at least a few weeks to get friendly with a girl in a class before I have the guts to ask her out. Is it even possible to break the ice and get friendly in such a short amount of time (Probably maximum 15 minutes in total combined throughout the three days)?
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reader, loveistheanswer +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Don't be afraid to show interest. I think its so detrimental that so many people have this insecure attitude of being afraid to look desperate... a guy confident enough to approach me directly and tell me he likes me, I would find that attractive, not desperate! It shows a strong character who knows what he wants in life and goes for it (and this goes for girls too! I hate the games people play, acting all disinterested, life is so short!) If you're afraid of looking desperate to me that shows that you're insecure about what you have to offer... so seriously just approach her and tell her that "you just recently realized half way through the course that you'd love to go out with her on a date, but with only three days left in the semester, are you interested in doing anything in the next couple of days? can I at least have your phone nubmer/email/facebook/whatever to get in touch with you next semester, blah blah blah" so simple, yet so many people avoid doing it! why, for the love of god why???? lol! the truth is simple and beatiful :)
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