A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am having a strange problem with girls. I have been brought up in asian background but i was always fascinated by white girls. To the extent that i don't like any asian girls and try to avoid them. I always dream of having sex with a white girl that is ultimately what i think will fulfill me. My problem is that i cannot find a white girl in my culture and now it has become difficult for me to even approach girls from my culture. pls. suggest... Reply to this Question
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 You could try just having asian friends and maybe you'll like them. But it's not like you chose who you're attracted to, I mean, loads of people struggle with being gay, it's not like this is much different. All I would say is that love is different to lust. You may fantasises and date only white girls, but then you'll meet an asian girl who you think is amazing and fall completely in love with her. And I mean her. Not her looks. Just her.
Open your mind a bit, seriously, just hang out with them, go to parties with them, see if there is anyone who takes your fancy.
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