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male
age
30-35,
*oft hearted guy
writes: Hi i am Jason Im 18 I have this really great girl we are togetha for 7 months. She makes me feel great about myself, she loves me, thats my opinion im sure she loves me. Months later she started to cheat on me with an ex-friend naython and my current friend naython becoz she thnks i played her, wich i didnt, nw she changed we broke up got back togethr,it went on like that often but i realy realy LOVE HER. So i chatted on her phone when my current friend naython thought it was she and talked bad about me like, i am ugly he is more charming then me she wil regret she chose me but she said she will change becoz SHE LOVES ME and she did change. But i told him i wil beat him up real bad bt she dnt want me to fight she is scared she wl lose me becoz this boy's brothr is kind of like a guy that hurts people but i dnt care, i wana teach him a lession but im not sure if i should. My feelings are messing with me. Cupid please help me. Tell me what must i do i need advice PLEASE!!!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (16 December 2010):
She does sound like she is playing you, knowing that you will always be there for her. You may be need to just give her some space because the more you threaten Naython the more reason she'll have to side with him and you could be making their situation stronger because she will feel sorry for him. I would just tell her she knows where you are if she wants to try again and y ou won't contact her again. That may just be enough for her to realize you mean business and if her feelings are so strong for you she won't be able to resist seeing you again, she may be scared that she may lose you forever. A risk I know but you need to test her real worth.
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