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writes:So theres this girl and i like her a lot. about a month ago everything was good and she seemed to be very interested in me, she was very flirty and her face lit up whenever she saw me. Then about two weeks ago i started to get the vibe that something was wrong, like im annoying her or something. so i talked to her and she said im the best guy shes ever met. Then just this past week when ive gone to talk to her it seems like she just wants me to go away. She does have a boyfriend that goes to another school. her bestfriend doesnt like him and she wants her to date me. I dont know what to do. i found a necklace to get her for christmas but i dont know if its worth it anymore. What should i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know if it is me that bothers her, she just says nothings wrong. But when I go to talk to her she's kind of sarcastic and she doesn't really say very much. A month ago it was the exact opposite she was very outgoing and always happy to see me
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Could you describe the signs you got that made you feel she'd rather you go away? Are you positive it was you that was the bother?
I say, if she is definitely seeing someone else and is paying no attention to you, relatively, still give her the gift. You hold feelings still and it's only right to make them known. It might open her eyes to you. If it doesn't go as you'd wished, the way she comports herself about receiving the gift.. however she acts or changes her act towards you will clue you into her true character and feelings and just may change your mind about her.
It is unfair to you to keep after someone who pays you little mind... after Christmas, I'm sure you'll know where to proceed with this, if at all.
-Tante Vic
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