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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 December 2010):
Yes, I'm with The Realist. At 5 months, no relationship should be as cold as this. I think she's having a laugh at your expense, and I think you should move on.
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reader, soon567  +, writes (17 December 2010):
It doesn't matter how long the two of you have been dating, she's not into you. People just lose interest in their mate like yours has, over the years. Sit down and ask her does she honestly want to be with you? If not I would set her free.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 Then you should definitely move on. After that long she's not saying that she loves you becasue she doesn't. This is just a game for her and when the fun is over she'll leave. You need to find someone who is looking for a real relationship like you are where after a year and a half you two will actually feel close together.
You're the mature one here and deserve a mature gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere's the thing we've already been together for over a year and 5 months
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reader, punk  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 She's not into you...better you move on..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 December 2010):
I'm not sure she's ready for a relationship. You'd do better to move on from her.
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reader, priyanka92 +, writes (16 December 2010):
 she is not really into you, she is keeping you hanging or maybe you are trying to hard to get onto her...just back off for a while and wait for her to ,make a move.. if she dusnt youre probably not the right guy for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): I think you are believing she is your girl friend and she is loving you that is your misunderstanding, I m sure she is not loving/liking you but rather she is looking for someone whom she likes very much from her heart, you need leave her alone otherwise you will be under trouble
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reader, The Realist +, writes (16 December 2010):
It sounds like you two are on a completely different level of maturity. Usually it's the guy being immature. I'm confused what she even thinks of the relationship but I don't think that she is right for you. I would find someone more suited to what you want in a relationship.
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