A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm only 18 years old and my boyfriend wants us to have a baby, and he is 21. i told him so many times that i dont want a child right now because i want to go to college and stuff. so i told him that we could just so he can be happy. but he didnt know i was on birth control. until he found them... and he took them away.. and i moved back with my parents just so we wont have sex and end up with a baby.. i want to tell him my true feelings w/o hurting his.. how can i go about with that? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 So, you would risk making a baby with him in order not to hurt his feelings...? You must be the most corteous girl I've ever heard of.
Just be sincere, and tell him to get real :
You are not gonna have a baby now because you are only 18, can't be sure yet if your relationship is rock-solid, need to get an education, a career ( not just " a job " ),a reasonably financial security, your own place to live and some more maturity and life experience before you have a baby.
If he understands that, fine. If he does not- dump him before he ruins your life.
|
