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writes:My friend been sending me mix feelings, all month and I don't know what to do! eh I start the story from the beginning. My friend and I been really good friends since the start of the school year. He's a freshmen and I'm a senior through... We started to talk to one another and soon starting to hang with each other with any freetime we get. Without noticing, we were both very playful with one another, a few months later...My feelings didn't start to developed till he did these sweet things for me, like waiting for me after my 3rd hour class suddenly outside the classroom door. We even go to lunch with eachother now, and always hanging out. We talk much, too, and we some what tease eachother. Then suddenly, my heart starts to beat faster when he pokes me on my shoulder, a playful act he always does. Soon, I cannot make almost no eye contact with his. My palms starts to sweat and my face starts to flush. eh He easy, makes me laugh without trying. For days, I was confused about what I felt. I never felt anything like this towards a guy before in my life. Not even my ex (my ex and I went out for 2 yrs, before THE breakup) I starting to yearn for his touch, anything, even a simple brush of my arm against his shoulder would of make me happy*sighs* I also been yearning to see his smile, to see him laugh and to see him talk. When weekends come, I almost couldn't bare to be away, without seeing his face or hear his voice at least once. My friends told me I have it bad. That he could be my first love, second love or THE one. Anyway, he starting to act the same way I did. He couldn't make any eye contact with me, and he always blush and keep a straight face around me if he could. He's more playful, and I naive of what the defination of flirting means didn't know the signs at the time. My friend R,mad, because on how blind we were over the 20 days, got us to confess to each other. He's crushing on me and I'm crushing back, but now he's pretending he never heard me saying I like him. He's pretending to be his normal self, like nothing happened. But my heart breaks little by little, seeing that he's unwilling to take a step and I kept my mouth shut, because...because I wanted to be at least be his friend in his life. I don't want to ruin our relationship as friends. I rather be his friend than not being in his life. Anyway, why is he acting like this?He's sending mix feelings.I need some advice X_X
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reader, petina1  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Sounds really nice. You've become good close friends and the most natural thing in the world is that these feelings are getting deeper between you. He's probably just as scared as you to confess this because he may be thinking the same, what if the friendship gets spoilt. If you talk easily I'm sure you could read the signs a bit more as to how he's feeling. Just play it by ear, let him make the first move then you will at least be sure of his feelings, you already know how you feel, but i would just hold back to make sure you are not mistaken as to what he is thinking.
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reader, tonythetiger123 +, writes (16 December 2010):
hey, afraid to say he's a man and he's scared of the rejectiona dn the fact that you maybe getting close and he may lose you if he gets it wrong,, has he had a love before??? if this is his first ten he wont know what to do and how to do it,, He wants you,, he really does but his head is rlling his heart, or so it seems,, You need to brea down the fear in him and try to talk to him a let him know that if you are together it will be the same as it is now but with more,, promise that if it doesnt work you'll try and still be freinds and that YOUR SCARED TOO, just dont push to hard,, if hes that specail you may need to play the long game.. Good luck. x
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