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writes:I just want to know things to consider and do's and don'ts when having a threesome. My wife and I are going to have one with another woman. My wife has gone there before but I never have. Always wanted to and now I have the chance. We have been married for 6yrs and are in our late thirties. The other woman is in her early twenties. Help.....
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Good for you. It does show confidence in the relationship that you two have.
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reader, Amistupid +, writes (20 December 2010):
Amistupid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we did it. It went awesome! My wife and I feel closer than we have ever felt and the new found friend, who I take offense to you calling her a hoe since my wife and I have better taste and are way more attractive than to just attract hoes, was totally cool. Matter in fact, we are planning a second encounter. Although I'm sure that this doesn't work for some couples who are doubtful that they have married the love of their life/soulmate/bestfriend, it did work for us. I guess that maybe my wife is just a lot cooler than the females that responded with judgment. Thanks for all other advice and feel free to continue responses. Happy threesoming .
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reader, rivi +, writes (17 December 2010):
Need more context - eg where has this 3rd woman come from ? What exactly will you all be doing together / to one another ?
Will it be you servicing the two women ? Or the two women doing things with one another ?
or what ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): There are three very important rules for having a three some with someone you love.
1) Don't
2) Don't
3) Don't
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): Always make sure the other girl is inferior to your wife. In this case she might feel a bit insecure with the other girl being younger.
Make sure you liquidate your accounts because your marriage is likely over. Get a good lawyer while you are at it.
Where a condom or two. If these hoes is willing to sleep with you then they must be dirty.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (17 December 2010):
My gf and I had a threesome not to long ago. The most important thing to do is to really discuss everything that could happen so that you two know how far you will let it go. Also remember to keep everyone involved equally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): Whoever you choose, set clear ground rules from the get go. Make sure you follow them throughout it all.
I would highly advise hiring a sex worker, from a respected and decent company, as they are payed for their services and will not, under any circumstances form emotional attachments to either of you. Then you will likely never see her again, unless the both of you choose to hire her again.
But even if this ensures it is a purely sexual experimentation on the part of yourself and your partner, and every precaution against any unintended outcomes is taken, there is still risk that it will change, or destroy your relationship. So please consider the variables carefully.
Flynn 24
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reader, AliceSullivan +, writes (17 December 2010):
 ok i dont want one because i dont want my man seeing another naked girl and having another naked girl even if its with me just try and talk to her about it if you dont want to and tell her what you are feeling shes a woman she will at least try to understand she may not at first but...
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