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writes:im so confused with guys at this point.theres this one guy, we'll call him "Boy A", and we used to talk EVERYDAY on the computer via Skype, and ever since we met in real life and hung out 4 times, he now ignores my messages and only says a couple of words to me in the halls at school.,.So i dont know about him now :S and now "Boy B" and i have been alright friends for a looong time, and now were getting closer after he invited me to be on his dodgeball team @ school... when we talk in person, its very dull... and boring and on msn it gets dull very quickly too, and we end up saying random things.. i dont like Boy A anymore since he barely acknowledges my existance.. i reaaally like Boy B, but when we talk its kinda boring... i dont know what to dooooo or say!!!
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reader, onelife2live  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 "Boy A" should be out of the picture because, most likely, he's not interested in you anymore.
"Boy B" This is a tough one. Yeah, you may like him, but you have to consider the fact that you all may not have anything in common. I do not think it's possible to be with someone, who you don't have anything in common with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): People tend to have separate online and offline lives. If was probably awkward for Boy A to mix the two of them, so he chose to keep his offline life the way it was, and cut you off from his online life to avoid having to deal with more awkwardness in school.
Since Boy B bores you, you probably don't feel a special connection to him (and if you do, it will fade quickly). Perhaps you have an interest in him because of his looks, some random personality traits, or just because he acknowledged you for a long time and tried to get closer to you by inviting you to be on the dodgeball team.
What to do? Whatever you would normally do. You can't expect to have a relationship with either of those two boys because to me it seems that you have no spark or affinity with them. So just carry on with your life, friends and don't think of those boys as potential romantic partners. When you find someone special, you'll know it.
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