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writes:I have known this guy for almost 3 years. we met at a show of his (hes in a band) and we immediatly had a connection. At first, I was working for him, doing pr for his band. I did this for about 2 years. We would often hang out, and talked everyday. Things started to get heavy. He knew I had feelings for him, and we both knew we couldn't professionaly work together anymore. It was all very upsetting, but we got through it. We then started hanging out together more. He would put his arm around me when we walked together, and called me on the phone much more often. we just went out together the other night, and it felt like our first real date. The night went perfectly. We held hands, laughed, and went back to his apartment. We listened to records on his couch and inched closer and closer together, until he finally kissed me.we made out on for about half an hour. He held me very close, and it was wonderful. When we walked downstairs, he kissed me again on his stoop. Then, he took me to his street corner where he hailed me a cab to go home. He kissed me again before I left. Its been about a week since that night. We live two hours away from eachother, so its hard to see eachother more than twice a week or so. Hes also 9 years older than me. I do feel, though, he wouldnt have kissed me if he didnt feel something for me. Especially since he wad always very carful about that sort of thing in the past. We both call eachother nicknames that only we understand . We both have very similar interests and the same sense of humor. Our friendship is like none other ive had with anyone before. Id like to know, do you think he has feelings for me? I really love him with all my heart, and I hope more than anything he feels the same Reply to this Question
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reader, Melissa2010 +, writes (16 December 2010):
Melissa2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know when he gets into a relationship, he's serious about it. i also know that he's not had a true girlfriend in the years ive known him. he's been talking to me lately about wanting to have a serious relationship, but perhaps he really needs to think things through before asking me...considering im young. and like you said, he is the more mature one so he should know what he is doing with me and how i would react to it.
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reader, Melissa2010 +, writes (16 December 2010):
Melissa2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i know the girls he has dated in the past, but i also know he hasnt had a real girlfriend since ive known him. i know he's looking to find a serious relationship, and perhaps he may be afraid of the fact that im young. like you said he is more mature, but knowing that, i feel like he should know what he's doing with me
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reader, petina1  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 He's nine years older than you. I know that doesnt really matter but he is the older more mature one and he should have made his feelings clear to you on the night. On the surface he seems to have feelings but you may be a bit impressionable and read into it more. Is there anyone else in his life or do you know his background. I'm just wondering if he has another reason as to why he is been vague with you.
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