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writes:ok i got a friend same age as me i started seeing his mom in seceret a few years ago we got close well we had a falling out imoved away as did they shortly after out of the blue she calls me up and offers me the spare room i move to ohio take the room and help with bills. now we kind of rekindled a little of what we had but she seams a little more distant at times and half of the time when i go to kiss her she starts to but pushes away i made it clear age and looks dont matter its who she is i love. things seam ok but still lacking. my friend doesnt know but i know he would accept it and be happy after awhile but his dad is around on weekends so we r keeping it hidden come spring she wants to upand leave move to sc. they are married but they arnt she allows him around for thier son who is slightly handicapped. i believe shes back into me but still acts distant i want a little more affection and have talked about it things got a little better but not so much any advice? im in love with her and she knows it. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Wow, she's married, your friend's mother who has yet to find out about it, and you live with them? How do you live under the same roof as them? Or did she get a secret apartment in Ohio that you live in, and she comes and goes seeing as she still has a marriage to maintain? What do you mean they're married but they aren't? That doesn't make sense. If they're not legally divorced then they're still married.
Well you're old enough to understand that this is an affair, she's still married. Do you really think she's going to ruin the other life she has with her husband and sons? Although, I think she should be honest with them but we already know that's not going to happen. She's being distant, because she's starting to rethink this affair. I suggest you cut ties, and opt out of this affair before you get disappointed.
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