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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey. I’m annoyed and confused about how I feel.Over the summer, I very nearly got into a relationship with a friend of a friend. We’d fancied each other for ages and both knew how the other felt. He’s not good-looking but he was really lovely. The problem was that we only spoke online because we were too shy in person. But I’m so fussy when it comes to men that I thought it must have meant something that I fancied him. In September he went on holiday and changed. I didn’t hear from him at all. I went to uni and forgot about him. I found out he’d pulled 2 girls whilst away which is out of character for him. I felt let down and frankly I want someone who’d treat me better than that. I don’t want a player and feeling bitter helped me move on. He’s now texting me again. I think he reckons he’s still in with a chance but I don’t want to be interested. He’s text me some rude stuff (sexual) and, although we had something much deeper, it now seems to be based on sex. I’m annoyed with him for treating me this way and I know that I don’t want him. I’m glad that I can now think straight about how I feel and realize that he’s not the one, but him texting me again brings it all back. Every time I get a text from him my heart flutters and I know I’d be nervous around him again. I just want this feeling to go away. He annoys me so much but it’s probably because I still feel something for him. I’m angry that I’m writing this about him! I don’t want him. I want a proper relationship with a guy that respects me. What do you think? Is what I’m feeling right?
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reader, priyanka92  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 you need to move on girl...he probably doesnt deserve you and he was probably pretending to be a very sorted and nice guy but he mustve gotten bored of being nice with you so he left widout a trace...his actual character is probably the type who'd only talk to a girl who he knew would sleep with him.. just divert your mind and try focusing on better things...
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