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writes:this is not a relationship related question...actually they are several questions.1. why do guys find butts so attractive?2. why do guys grow their nails long...that's just gross3. why do guys seem incapable of thinking about anything but sex?4. how do guys view girls...i know most girls view guys as a total different species from them...a while back my friend was shocked to discover her bf reads romantic novels just like a girl...these are the questions that haunt me...lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): 1. Why do women find guys muscles attractive?
2. those guys are clearly loosers and dont care how they look
3. Sex is good, not that great, woman always gets more orgasims & it feels good for them whilst in action. Guys just have the one orgasim at the end, then they have to start from the top and finish again to get another. Unless the guy is selfish, then your theory stands. But females tend to forget about the man's needs anyways when they get their satisfaction.
e.g. Guy plays with the girls vagina or whatever, he turns her on, but she says 'FUCK ME' and forgets to turn him on. Selfish and stupid.
4. theres no such thing as a girly thing or a boy thing, society is just setting up steriotypes like 'OH men should be manly blablabla' and 'women should do these things like clean the kitchen' Its all bull, and men see women as women. this different species thing is kids talk
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 1. Some men like breasts most, some favor long legs, some are into butts. Women are attractive, head to toe, and everyone has some favorite part of the female body. I actually know some women that find men's butts attractive too!
2. I don't know any men that grow their nails long, but a few guys I know just forget to clip them very often. Men do tend to be a little oblivious sometimes. Sorry.
3. I don't know about being unable to think about anything else, but men like women! Men want women! And yes, men like sex. I hate to tell you, but there are more than a few women around that obsess about sex far more that most of the guys I know. Maybe you're just spending time around some very hormonal / immature guys.
4. Most of the guys I know are perplexed by women who "want nice guys" but only date jerks. These guys tend to nearly worship women, putting them on high pedestals and forgetting that women are people, just as screwed up as men are. But then again, there are jerks that think of women as LESS than men, so there's no one answer for how guys think. Mostly we're just confused about how women think.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 December 2010):
 1. Take a look at women's magazines. They are filled with images of other women. Men are not the only group to find women's bodies appealing to look at. We women do it too.
2. I think this is a cultural thing. Men in certain cultures grow their nails long as a sign that they do not work with their hands, i.e. they are not laborers. Some feel this makes them of a higher class, the leisure class is another word for it. The notion goes back to the difference between the 'gentry' and the 'working class.'
3. You must be hanging out with some very hormonally driven young men. Most guys I know are much more capable of hiding the fact that they think of sex every 6 seconds! Give them time to grow up or ignore them.
4. I think guys view girls with a mixture of wonder and desire. Well, the girls they find attractive, anyway. But that's just my take on it. Isn't it wonderful? Young men and their energy help make the world run! They do far more good than they get credit for.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 December 2010):
 These questions will likely get answers all over the board because everyone is different. I'll give you my take though.
1. I love a nice booty! Why? I don't really know. I just know it turns me on. It's not the only thing that turns me on though as some girls I find incredibly attractive don't actually have a nice booty. Still, it's kind of an animalistic attraction. Could be the subconscious fertility thing, I couldn't say for sure.
2. I don't know any guys who do this either unless they are coke heads. It is rather uncommon in my experience.
3. Depends on the age of the guy. The younger the guy, the more he thinks of sex. Some studies have said that men think of sex every 6 seconds. I know I don't, but I do think of it multiple times each day, especially when I see an attractive woman. I assure you though, men do think of more than sex, if we didn't, you wouldn't have the answers from men here.
4. I used to be confused by women really badly. I have since studied them and found we're not that different. In fact, many of our perceived differences come from differences in our communication styles. Ultimately people are people, all individuals. I've known some women who were more "manly" than me, and I've met some guys who were more "effeminate" than most women I know. One thing is certain, the more people focus on the differences between genders, the more blind they become to the similarities.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Most of your questions seem to stem from the stereotypical belief that ALL men are like that. I can assure you that this is not the case. Also, nationality and culture plays a big part in answer your questions. Things are different here in the US compared to other countries and cultures but I will answer to the best of my knowledge:
1. I will agree with CaringGuy on this one, but I will add that different men like different things. Some like looking at butts, some like legs, some like breasts, others like feet, other just look at eyes. Every guy is different.
2. I don't grow my nails long, nor would I ever. That could be more of a cultural thing but it is not common here in the US.
3. Another misconception. I can tell you there are women that think just as much about sex if not more than men. As CaringGuy said, men in their teens generally think more about sex because it's more of their developmental stage. It's not always that way.
4. I don't view women as a different species either. But you proved that women are just as confused about men and men are about women when you gave the example of your friend not knowing her bf reads romantic novels.
Bottom line: Every man is different.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 December 2010):
1 - A guy will look at a butt naturally, because subconsciously to a man, a woman's butt is a representation of how fertile she is.
2 - I sure as hell don't grow my nails long! I don't think many men do.
3 - We do think about other things than sex. Lots of things. But sex is quite important to men. Also, you're probably meeting guys in their late teens and twenties, and they think about sex a lot.
4 - I don't really view women as a different species. I don't really know how I view them. God knows I spend enough time trying to understand them though! Maybe women are more like a foreign language or something.
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reader, CJH +, writes (16 December 2010):
 In answer to your questions.....
Not all guys find butts attractive although I myself do - as for why? I have no idea.
We grow our nails long because were just plain lazy - sorry.
I think about a lot of things aside sex but sex is important to me as it is with many other guys (and girls for that matter).
My view of women is that theyre, first and foremost, human beings. Mother nature dictates that I desire them sexually too but, in my case, I find it hard to have a physical relationship with a woman I dont find mentally attractive.
Were all different you know, you seem to be throwing every guy and every girl into the same category. The truth is, there are millions of different categories! Get out there and meet a few more guys and youll see.
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