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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating my Bf for 9 months now, We've been in a long distance relationship between europe and asia now for 3 months, Last week I met him for the first time since the long distance commenced. I found out that he had a one night stand (although he says that he didn't finish the act) He contacted the woman in front of me and told her that he wont see her again. I believe that he was telling the truth, he answered all the questions that was asked and promised me that it was a mistake made once that would never happen. I gave him a second chance due to this was his first time cheating in any relationship that he's ever had. Though I did make it quite clear that if this was to happen again it's over. I feel like I've made the right choice, He's my first relationships out if many that makes me feel like having a possible future, which is the same for him too. The fact that its not just and kind of long distance relationship, one that goes over continents scares me more. Am I stupid to trust him? Because of this Instead of him coming to Europe in an years time hes trying his best to come in 6 months, so that I can feel safe. Is it possible that someone really would only make the mistake once? Or is his sincerity a mask...? Has anyone experienced (forgiven) someone and had a happy relationship? Any answers would help!
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reader, punk  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 If you trust him. then go ahead with the relationship. cuz you wouldn't wanna regret something you never gave a second chance. give it sometime. 6 months are long. but if you think he's worth waiting for, then go ahead.
Cuz in the end, its your perception that matters. go with your instinct. if he's not the kinda guy who can be trusted then you should move on.
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