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30-35,
*oingandback
writes:I'm an international student in this country, and I met my ex-girlfriend in the university before almost three months now. She is less than 2 years older than me. since we have been together my love to her became more and more deep everyday. She loved me too, I had felt that everytime I looked at her eyes.After more than two months of our relationship she told me that she have to break up with me because her parents still don't know about us and they want her to go out with someone because they will benefit financially with his parents. And before they asked her to don't have a relationship until she graduates. I felt that it's only bullshit.After several days I found out that since maybe 1 year she is the secret mistress of her teacher. He is not married but almost 20 years older than her.During our relationship she used to meet me and meet the teacher later or before. And when sometimes he called her while we have been sitting together she used to tell me after the call that it's someone who still want to be her boyfriend since maybe 2007 but she still refuse.I want to add that in that time I couldn't understand what she said to him in the phone because I don't speak the local language, so the result is that she could make her own stories.But before now one month the teacher saw us kissing outside. Of course He couldn't do anything because he is just a secret boyfriend but in the night I found out the truth after he makes her call me and tell me everything next to him. moreover, he knew me before because he searched about my informations in the administration (Full Name, Date of bird, country, career ...) and called me with a private number and mailed me ... after she told him that she wants to leave him to be with me. But he threatened her to don't let her graduate if she left him Because he know that she want very much to graduate. I know that too !!After that day I had contacted her and told her that I forgave her and I understood that she wanted to be with me because she loves me. And because I love her very much I asked her to go back to me and everything will be like before, she said OK but only after she talks to him and break up with him. But later he told her that she have to stay with him at least until next June ...Later she told me to stay away from her and that she don't love me anymore. So I stoped contacting her . And the worst thing is that I still think about: Who is the teacher? How can I know him? How is he like? He still hide his ID and Unfortunatly I don't have her friends or classmates contacts. I can only take informations from my teachers but I don't want someone to know about her story.Now I want just to forget her and her secret boyfriend, that I hate very much. I don't want to be with her again but I still think about her everytime. I also don't go out because everytime I go somewhere I remember that we have been together there before. How can I forget her? please help me !!goingandback
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reader, AliceSullivan +, writes (18 December 2010):
 sorry steph007 but a rebound girl is really not the right choice...
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reader, steph007  +, writes (16 December 2010):
Find an other girlfriend, that is all.
During the undergrad years you should make some girlfriends just to learn the life and it's diversity. This girl seems to know this.
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