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writes:I am just want other peoples opinions on this, me and this girl dated a little while back a year or two ago, things just ended with me still liking her and her liking someone else and left me for him. She started to date this guy early this year and well I just found it odd how she was reacting to it, she never told me about her dating this guy she dated him for 1.5 months before a friend told me they were, we were 'friends' at this point. At first when we talked about it, it was you were never jealous, your not jealous of my new boy friend or anything. I was shocked and didn't say much, I just couldn't believe what I was hearing and walked away (She had been dating him for a month or two at that point),latter she told me I was not a mature guy for doing that and that I seemed like a know it all, at least thats what her parents called me. She then latter told me how her boy friend protects her from other guys, if another guy touches her he comes over and 'rescues' her from them. Several months pass, and well we start doing things together on a weekly basis (her boy friend was out of town), and she got mad a few times, she also told me how many guys were hitting on her at a club one night, latter saying she was sorry for how she reacted (she wanted to go to the club with me, but I already had plans to go to a party). Things then turned normal again after a while, when her boy friend came back things were okay just a bit more distant this time again. Then we started running together on weekend (I joked I could out run her and well point proven :P). It got to the point where people started asking us if we were together, even her parents asked me if we were together. We have not really seen each other in 3 months now (we are both in school), we have had coffee once or twice in that time, but chat every now and again on Skype or random texts just asking hey how are you, or hey I saw you at the bus stop where are you going. She had a midterm, I text her good luck, and she responded "Hey, thats kinda ironic, I was just thinking about you ... and your family, how are they?". I just really want a second opinion on this, I care for her, and well I just have tired to be neutral towards her and her actions and to not think to deeply into them. But I have taken tonight to really think about them, and just want another persons opinion on the situation rather then my buddies who says "Just delete her on Skype, she has a boy friend, go out have fun, live your life, don't hold on to the past". I just can't bare to do that to a person (I am a good person).Keep in mind I do go out and live my life, I hang around girls all the time.What do you guy's/girl's think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): She craves attention and plays games. Just ignore her from now on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Well, don't delete her name on Skype. Only don't use Skype. Your friend gave you good advice.
See it from the perspective of the other man: She left you for him, yet when the Cat is Away, the Mice get so close you'd say they played...
Now see it from the perspective of the girl. "Cat's Away, so I'll go see Mouse and see if he plays".
The girl might be unbelievably hot, but I don't like the fact that Cat has to "rescue" her at clubs. Seems like she's into teasing. I know that there are many bastards out there, but I wonder how many of them do reach to touch a girl even if they know she is with someone. Maybe I'm playing Mr. Mistrust here, but... I don't like this.
Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): You're not conveying how important she is to you.. it seems you don't care for her superalot... you don't see her very often. Why not just move on and continue living your life and hanging with your girls... find one you have strong feelings for and commit to her. Don't waste time on game- players who don't ever show they care about you!-Tante Vic
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