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female
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26-29,
*angelxxstarX
writes:I dont think im over my ex....its not a good feeling ): we went out for not even a month but i liked him so much. i cared so much about him that he was so hard to get over. he only broke up with me because i had "problems" that he didnt want to deal with i guess ): but like 3 months after we broke up, we became friends again and he's been trying to get me back since then until about...3 months ago. i said no everytime. i've had a boyfriend now for about 14 months and i really do truly love him. but...im not so sure if im over my ex. he has a girlfriend now. But before they were going out, they were both my best friends. he was my best friend because we could trust each other and we treated each other like siblings. she was my best friend because she was one of the only people i trusted as well. i never thought they'd get together but they did...now my best friends are dating and one of them is my ex and its weird whenever we hang out because they both call me their best friend and get jealous when the other hugs me or something like that. they like play fight over whos best friend i am -.-' and then it makes me feel awkward because hes doing all the stuff he did with me, with her and its just like XP i get uncomfortable around them sometimes. then whenever they kiss or hug or anything i get so jealous because they see each other every single day at school and sometimes on the weekends and i only get to see my boyfriend twice a week ): even today i was telling my friend that sometimes i miss being his girlfriend because i miss seeing the guy i love every day like that ): the good time we had were great. and sometimes i miss it. i would never go back though. its confusing and i dont know if im over him or if im just overreacting about something else. and im sorry about this long, unnecesarry thing :/ i just needed to let out my feelings i guess.....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 Hi well i dont think that you are in love with him and want to be his girlfriend, i think you are just jelous. It is completely normal to feel like this, he is your ex and she is your best friend so of course it will be awkward for you, and when you see then together it probably confuses you as thats the way he used to be with you, you probably also envy them because they see each other more than you see your boyfriend.
I think the best way to deal with this is to be honest with them, tell them sometimes you feel awkward when they kiss and hug in front of you and ask them when they are hanging out with you not to be all over each other, tell them that you feel out of place sometimes and you just want to spend time with your two best friends and act like you three are a group not just you and them as a couple. if they know how you feel am sure they will respect you for being honest with them and turn it down.
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