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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm kind of wondering if anyone could give some advice on getting a date. I am a lesbian (have been all my life) and I know there are a few girls around school who would be willing to date another girl. The problem is I'm terrible at asking someone out. I'm not always sure if the girl I'd like to ask out would be okay with it, and even if I am sure she'd be alright, I still get nervous about if things go wrong anyway. I'm not really good at flirting and just outright letting someone know I like them feels odd to me. I'd feel more comfortable being asked than doing the asking, but that doesn't happen too often (possibly even for similar reasons to my own). Any tips?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 Ok well first of you need to relax and not put as much pressure on yourself, see it as you are asking a girl would she like to go to a movie or for a bite to eat dont over analyse it, just make it as simple as can be. At least then if they say no to you, its not like they are rejecting you it could be that they just dont want to see that certain film or already have plans.
If there are a few girls that you know are lesbian/bisexual and there is any that you like then just strike up a conversation with her, try and get to know her and see what your common interests are, if there is a band or a movie that you both have the same taste in then why dont you casually ask her would she like to go to a concert with you or to the movies.
Dont go straight in telling her you like her or trying to flirt just take your time hang out with her get to know her and the more you do this the more comfortable you will feel around her.
Goodluck.
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