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writes:Every time I have sex with my wife it only last for about 3 minute. Not to mention that we don't have sex that often only about once every 2 weeks. How do I lengthen that time of the sex? And sometime, most of the time I just don't feel the sex drive with her, and when i do she is too tired or doesn't want it. we have been together for 12 years Am I loosing interest of her? If so how do i add the excitement back to our marriage life consider that we see each other almost 24/7 since we work together in the same office. And also seriously, what's the normal and healthy length of time of sex for most of the men out there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): yes i agree, it isnt about how long you last inside her, women like foreplay, its the most important part of sex, and if you foreplay for a hour, then have intercoarse for 5 min, to her you just did it for an hour and 5 min. foreplay is more then oral and fingering, foreplay has foreplay before foreplay, like alot of touching in places other then her private parts, work your way up to the private parts, then when shes completely turned on, go for the intercourse, shell love it. without foreplay, the guy cums while the girl is just getting started being horney usually, and thats why most girls dont even get off. foreplay foreplay foreplay
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reader, DKW  +, writes (10 December 2010):
The reason it doesnt last long is because you don't have it very often...you say the sex lasts minutes, well that will give you completion but not your partner...spend time on the sofa before you go to bed, kiss her, feel her body, make her want you to take her to bed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): you only need 2 things
1) skip foreplay
2) add to the atmoshere by swallowing
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (10 December 2010):
Follow these tips and with a little energy, creativity, and a “whole lotta love,” you'll have the sex life you want and deserve.
1. Be Spontaneous. There’s no rule that says sex needs to take place in the dark of night. If the kids are all at play dates, and your sweetie’s looking extra sweet, there’s no need to wait ‘til bedtime. Take him by the hand, and get going. There’s no time like the present. Besides, predictability is so boring and the last thing you want your sex life to be is boring.
2. Affection and desire go hand in hand. Making love should be an all day affair. Think about it. Holding hands under the breakfast table, a sweet kiss as you head out for work, a lunchtime phone call filled with sweet nothings, cuddling together to watch the sunset or the kids at play – these are all part of making love. Consider it emotional foreplay. When you feel loved, you are more loving. So make the first move, be affectionate all day long and you’ll reap the rewards that evening.
3. Dates aren't just for swinging singles. Relationships grow and change as time goes by. As life becomes more complicated, romance and sex aren't always a priority, but they should be. Date nights aren't luxuries, they're necessities. Work late one less night a week, hire a babysitter or arrange to trade off kids with a friend, schedule some couple time during soccer practice. Make your relationship a priority.
4. Experiment. Don’t be afraid to try new things. After all, a little variety keeps things interesting. Small, comfortable changes in your routine can make things a lot more interesting. Keep the lights on, consider new locales, just have fun.
5. Talk with your partner about what you want/need. He’s not a mind reader. Neither are you, you know. Tell him what you're curious about, tell him how you want things done, and then listen. It’s a two-way street.
If you’re satisfied in your relationship, you'll be better able to deal with all that life has in store for you. You’ve heard it before: when you’re happy, everyone’s happy. So, go find your sweetie and get happy.
I hope that help. please rate if you like
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