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writes:my bf and i have been going out for a little while now, and he put me as his gf, on facebook, because i asked him too, but he wouldnt comment me or my pics, and if i commented a pic using hearts, he wouldnt answer back. finally he told me that he has to take off that he has a realtionship with me, because his friends dont like me, because since i had, a sexual encounter with one of his friends, in the past, 2 times only, that friend had lied, and said it was 10 times and that i was easy. I already made this clear to me bf, and told him, im not like this anymore, and it was a mistaken, and he said he understands. But he still says, that he can not put me as his girlfriend on facebook, and that it'll be our little secret. In conclusion, he has he is single on facebook. but due to this, he wont ever be able to take me to a party, or anything, :( one of his friends wrote to me, saying he wanted to be my friend and stuff and i was surprised, and i told my bf this, and he was like, but he is not all my friends.what if he is using me, and he wont put it to put girls jealous, even if he did it once??though, i wouldnt be bothered, if he didnt comment other girls, with hearts, but he does, and its soo annoying, and i told him, and he said, that he has lots of friends who are girls, and yes he will see them, but that he will not have sex with them or kiss them.give me your thought on this, pls
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): Yeah he is using you. Or he's also dating other women.
Seriously use your head, what difference does it make changing his status to his friends they know he's seeing you anyway. Don't believe him if he tries to tell you they don't.
Let me ask you something? WHY ARE STAYING WITH A GUY WHO IS ASHAMED TO BE WITH YOU!?
He's so ashamed of being with you that he won't let you meet his friends even though some of his friends want to meet you? Why are you with a guy who is so ashamed of you that he removed you as his girlfriend on facebook? So ashamed of you that he doesn't even acknowledge you on facebook.
He is using you, really badly too. He is single on his facebook so that other girls won't lose interest, he's telling other girls he's single and yes he is most definitely kissing and having sex with other girls.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/women-actions-speak-louder-than-words.html
Once this guy finds another girl to have a relationship with, he's going to dump you and you're going to get really hurt I guarantee it. Good luck OP, you're being played by a player and it's going to get a lot worse for you, because he's already walking all over you.
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