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writes:I'm a straight male in a long term relationship. I have had enough women that I lost count, which I'm torn between "thinking I'm totally boss" and "feeling terrible" about forgetting some of their [past girlfriend's] names. I say this just to enhance the understanding of straight--as in hetero.A month ago, my girlfriend and I got a little freaky. And by a little freaky, I guess I should say crazy as in not vanilla.To just spit it out, she had me moaning like a b*tch in heat on all fours massaging my p-spot with her fingers, and then sexed me with a strap-on.Now thats not what I'm confused about. I understand that anal play is a full known hetero thing to do, just not highly spoken of because everyone thinks that that makes them a "fag".What I'm confused about, is that ever since then, I've been attracted to men where before I was not. I don't mean romantically attracted, but purely lustful sexual attraction. I've had urges to do to guys what my girlfriend did to me, where I hadn't had them before. It wasn't even the first time we'd done that sort of thing!I'm more observant of locating the finest male ass in the crowd than ... ever. The only times before that I noticed another mans ass was when it was so well formed that from behind he looked like a woman!....Was I bi and didn't know it? Or is there a perfectly rational hormonal reason for this sudden spawn of bi/gay lust?And yes, I am still very much attracted to my girlfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 i have to agree with him labels do tend to stir people up. their is no need to be afraid of such things you are who you are. i personally wouldnt cheat on my partner but i would test the water to see what their thoughts on the mater would be. alot of people fear the unusual or the different change in pattern to their life just try and relax think about it logically do not stress over this it will only make it worse for you. hope this helps good luck
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 The longer I spend on this site, the more I think that labels aren't necessarily helpful. Your experience may have awakened some latent curiosity. That's a big deal if you want it to be, or if you mess up your relationship by acting on it. Otherwise, you've merely learned something new about yourself.
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