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male
age
41-50,
*heresmyluck
writes:Hi everyone hope someone can help me with this.My ex girlfriend of 5 years dumped me with no specific reason no fighting arguing cheating etc... We were living 2 and half years together and when she left she forgot to leave spare keys for the house and her mum told me that she would bring it back. Since then i have not heard anything its been 50 days or so and last night i found my ex s phone number and texted her this;Hi hope you are ok! Will i ever get my keys back?But no response whatsoever.PS: She dumped me 4 times before and came back begging after each time and longest she was gone was 1 and half months but this time its over for me so have no ideal what game she is playing unfortunately and im tired of this.All i ask is the spare keys that she has for the house... Can someone tell me whats that means being on silent?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): If it bothers you get the locks changed. It looks as if that will be a form of closure for you. Then everyhting is done. So either forget it or send a bit of money and change the locks. Either way don't spend too much time dwelling on it.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 It sounds like she has just forgotten about you and doesn't want contact at all. Her silence says to me that she is completely done with the relationship.
I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you, don't take her back because you can find someone way better for you who won't throw a fit and take off knowing that they can get you back after they had their fun. I would change the locks asap and forget about the keys. You don't want her to come back at some point and just walk into your place. It's a big safety thing, she could give the key away or trash the place. I don't know what she would do but this is what comes to my mind.
Move on as best as you can and you will find someone who is actually there for you 100%.
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reader, loveistheanswer  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 it means that she is done with the relationship, and that if you want the spare key that much, you might as well change the lock instead...
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