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writes:This question is directed primarily to Scorpio and Cancer lesbians who have experienced or currently involved in a Scorpio-Cancer Lesbian Love Relationship...HOWEVER...I welcome those outside of this category to share insightful information as well.What are the dynamics of a Scorpio-Cancer Lesbian. Love Relationship on every level, from an individual partner perspective as basis as well as a partnership basis?Thank You.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Being lesbian myself and having the crab zodiac alongside my gf who is a Scorpio...I may can shed some light on this subject. Well both individually are really sweet people, kind and giving. However, both can be mean as bulls about certain things and again however this mean behavior will never last too long and it always lead to good makeup. Cancers are sensitive, guarded, do not like being told what to do but in no way arrogant. Cancers are the followers when it comes down to this match bc of the security it puts in Scorpio. Cancers will be wanting the emotional qt while Scorpio will be wanting the sexual qt. Scorpios are very sexual and love to dominate their partner. If for any reason the cancer don't give in then of course before long the crab will miss the Scorpio too much to keep up with the madness. As partners they really mesh well the cancer needing to be reminded of the emotional and the Scorpio needing that constantly obedient and submissive cancer. A mature Scorpio will not abuse the ability to dominate and should Scorpio test her turtle she will without warning find out the purpose of the shell bc the cancer will retreat n put Scorpio on shit list. Cancers have no problem dropping ppl they believe will cause them harm. So long as truth affection love and sex is involved then the two will always be happy. The dynamic thing about these two moody signs is that being lesbian brings more mood swings. Great match and interesting.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 Now I am not going to pretend I know anything about lesbian relationships, so I will not focus on that aspect of your question. But what I want you to focus on, is the horoscope element and why the main thing you can do to damage your relationship, and all future relationships is to believe that a horoscope has any sort of effect.
Please stick with this, read until the end with an open mind - then hopefully you will stop using this as a basis for relationships and start treating your partner as an individual, not a general personality profile.
What actually is a horoscope? Well a horoscope is an astrological forecast. The term is also used to describe a map of the zodiac at the time of one’s birth. The zodiac is divided into twelve zones of the sky, each named after the constellation that originally fell within its zone (Taurus, Leo, etc.). The apparent paths of the sun, the moon, and the major planets all fall within the zodiac. Because of the precession of the equinoxes, the equinox and solstice points have each moved westward about 30 degrees in the last 2,000 years. Thus, the zodiacal constellations named in ancient times no longer correspond to the segments of the zodiac represented by their signs. In short, had you been born at the same time on the same day of the year 2,000 years ago, you would have been born under a different sign. Therefore point one of my argument - you are not actually the horoscope the magazines and internet tells you, because the earth has changed since the Babylonians were around (the originators of horoscopes). Hence what you are basing your life upon is incorrect and chances are you are not scorpio and your partner is not cancer.
Try reading any horoscope you find online or in a magazine. In almost every single one of them you could find something that applies to your situation - horoscopes are not tailored to individuals, they are hugely generalised statements that are generated quite randomly by the author.
Research this man - Bertram R. Forer. In his classic 1948 experiment, Forer administered a personality test to his students. Rather than scoring the tests and giving individual assessments, he gave all the students exactly the same analysis copied from a newspaper astrology column. The students were then asked to evaluate the description on a scale of zero through five, with five being the most accurate. The average evaluation was 4.26. The experiment has been repeated hundreds of times since 1948, and the average remains about 4.2.
The Forer effect shows that people tend to accept generalised descriptions of their personalities without realising that the same evaluation could apply to nearly anyone else, because people want the results to be true.
And my favourite part of astrology - I find it to be akin to racism. They both operate on the principle that a person's behavior is based on how they were born instead of who they are. Though most astrology readings are parlor tricks pointing out the most general positive qualities in a person, it does follow that if you believe that a person is introspective because they were born in December, then you can also buy into the foolish idea that a person is lazy because of the color of their skin.
So why are you trying to pigeon hole your partner by the month she was born, instead of treating her as an individual? She is unique, no star sign or movements of the planets are going to tell you how this relationship will work or what you need to do to make it successful.
So please, digest what I have wrote and think about this carefully - and hopefully you will stop with this ancient idea and start to realise that no-one can predict your future or how your relationship will work. Instead you just need to love each other, trust each other and communicate well. If you can manage that, and make each other laugh - then you have a recipe for a great relationship. If you carry on with this idea of horoscopes and believing that this will rule your relationship, then your relationship is doomed I'm afraid. If you choose to believe the movements of planets and stars over living in reality then your relationship will never work and the 'dynamics' will be wrong from the start.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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