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26-29,
*ylan McK
writes:Hey guys, let me try to explain my situation as best i can. I'm the lead guitarist and singer in my 4-piece band, we do proper gigs at pubs and blues clubs. My co singer is a lovely lady by the name of Megan, and she's the problem. You see, from the moment i met her, I had a crush on her, and now i think its more then just a crush. She is so bright, and has the same sense of humour as me. Whenever she's on stage with me, she just gives me the chills, she is the best singer i know and she has such a stage persona. She does stuff though, that just gets to me. She'll come up to me on stage and hold my hips, and she sings at the same microphone as me, which means when we are singing together, her lips are literally millimetres away from mine. And there's just something about the way she looks at me. But its not just on stage that she does this, she acts almost the same off stage, when we are together, or in that most dreaded of places 'school'. People say she 'wants' me, the truth is, i think she does, i just don't have the courage to ask her to be my girl. I think she may knows how much i love her anyway, because this one gig at a local hotel populated by crack heads, this really wierd guy who was staring at Megan all night, just rushed the stage at one point, and tried to lift her skirt up. I hit him square in the face with my guitar, leaving a Crack head shapped dent in my Gretsch, and saying something along the lines of "You filthy b*****d, try anything like that on my Meg and I'll (UNTYPABLE)" May have let the cat out of the bag on that one...So, what do i do? How do i ask her out? if im not with her, i don't know if i can take it.
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reader, HondaTohru  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Yeah, I guess you should have some kind of a talk... I see two possibilities that could happen from it: either she ends up dating you, or she accepts to back off a bit because what she does is too much for you to handle.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 I mean it sounds like a good idea to ask her out then again...
What happens if you guys do get together and then a break up happens? It might break the band up or you'd have to find a new back-up singer. Just something to think about. Instead, how about one of your groupies?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): :)
Perhaps no words are needed? When she gets close to you next time you're off stage and alone, see what she does if the situation gets quiet and serious and you go for a kiss... Physical things can have a lot more effect than words, and can do a lot of convincing when it comes to the ladiiieees.
-Tante Vic
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