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He's convinced I've cheated so how do I trust he won't cheat on me?

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Question - (3 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

He says he is convinced I cheated on him. In reality, I did not. He says he wants to still make the marriage work, and that he will leave me before he would cheat on me. How can I trust that he will not cheat on me, when he says he is convinced that I cheated on him?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

If he doesn't trust you or believe you, what chance has this relationship really got? Sit down with him and talk through why he feels that way. There must be a reason, even if you havne't cheated.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (3 October 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntI'm sorry but we need more information in order to give you any helpful advice/

Like what the episode he claims for you to have cheated on him entailed

What happened that he does not trust you.

We cant help you if you give us nothing to advise you on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009):

You can't and odds are he's already cheated on you. Guys that accuse their women of cheating usually are trying to deflect the focus on them.

If he's that insecure he (not you) has a problem.

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