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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:The guy i was dating is gone with the army for 5months, we were with eachother all summer but we could never be exclusive because of certain circumstances. He was not married or anything like that but there was a complication. We were very close to eachother textin n ringing everyday n he instigated it everytime, i made that a rule for myself. i think because he was in the army that he never showed his true feelings for me, i had my doubts that he was completely faithful with me as we couldn't be out in the open he said he was but then before he left i was told he cheated but he denied it and said it was me he wanted to be with. He is gone now and i can only hope that he will keep in touch because i miss him soooo much already. We left on good terms and as friends but do you think that when he comes back and settles back again that we could possibly have an open relationship. It won't have to be kept hidden when he does come back either. Any advice for a heartbroken girl who does not know where she stands???
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Where you stand? Firmly in the happy land of denial. Enjoy your stay.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
Oh dear. I think this guy didn't know what he wanted. I don't think he's all that into you to be honest. To cheat on you so quickly really isn't all that great. The thing is, he said that he didn't want a relationship because of commitments. Why would you want an opne relationship with him? Don't allow yourself to be used or to be second best when there is a guy out there who can give you all his heart. You know this isn;t going to work out I think, because you suggested the open relationship as a means of getting him back. He doenst' love you, so be brave, end it, give yourself time to get over him and find a guy who'l commit to you and you only. Don't be second best.
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