I've fallen for him, but he can be quite a strange character!

A female age 30-35, *ellowmarshmallow writes:

we have an age gap of 14 years and hes being the elder one. We met through a commom friend and before he knew she was getting married he used to give her little hints. She is brazilian and i am caucasian. I went out with him once already and we kept in touch, but he is a full man and is living in London. Due to some restrictions the church they both go to none of them are supposed to have sex before marriage- and he is looking for a wife but he used to be a model and work with events so he knows whats good and not. The thing is: im still really young and i have my dreams to pursue. When we used to talk he used to tell me wonderful things and as im not a robot or anything it did affect my feelings and what i feel towards him now is beggining to explode inside of me. he can be quite a strange character as sometimes when you leave or reply to one of his comments on facebook he just deletes it and dont say anything back like nothing happened - and thats not only with me. My mother also thinks im young to get in something reeeeally serious, but her and my friends mother approve of him. I think if he really did like me then he shouldnt be treating me like that, but in the other hand it isnt just me. Also im affraid he found somebody else, an older girl than me, but ive fallen for him and im blind. I really dont know what to do, what to expect, what to say. Anyone want to help please ? Thanks (:

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