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writes:hey guyyss..i really need ur helpok so im 16, and im dating a guy (also 16)..we have been doing this LDR for 1 or 2 years now.*he lives in the usa and i live in another country...*but we saw each other of course (the summer one year ago, and this summer), and we are gonna see each other again (in december and april and this summer also..), we are planning stuff for the future (like going to the same univ etc etc) and we really love each other. when we are together its like the best time ever. soo great reallythe only lil problem is that the more i talk to him - on skype, msn , phone etc- the more i get bored.. i need him like physically, im tired of talking and looking at him and skype without being able to touch him ..idk why like really i love him and he is not boring at all. but its weirdso please tell me what do u think...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): hey its me (the girl who asked the question, but i dont wanna register so thats why its anonymous)
ok welll thank you for answering. i really appreciate that
but there is no way i could bring myself to break up with him.
no way!
i know im 16 i gotta live my life, experience new things etc etc
and you are totally right. im thinking like that also so much but i mean when im with him the only thing i wanna is stay with him forever haha
and im always thinking about what you said -like i should break up,experience life, love etc- but its easier to say that to do
even if its so hard. i reallly wanna stay with him as long as possible.
im getting used to this LDR a little bit.
i just asked the question to know what i should do to make it a little less boring
or to make it like if we werent in a LDR or something
im not saying that our conversations are boring (not at all)
its just that its the first time im doing this. and i really love this guy
even if i broke up with him i wouldnt date anyone else in my country (honestly) cause for now, he is the best boyfriend and bestfriend i've ever had
and a guy like him isnt like other guys. he has such a great personality and he is so funny and he is so in love with me. you'll never find someone like him.
oh wow sorry i know im writing a lot and mostly to tell u the story of my life but i have to tell you these stuff so that you can understand
cause the more you have information, the more you can conclude
thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Im struggling with the same issue! Haha, also in a long distance relationship, and I have to find ideas for gifts! Im am so far planning to write him a romantic novel (intimate one just for him and me to know about), maybe make him a movie and send it to him. Also you can send a card in the mail/order a gift online from a store in his area/country and have it being sent to him?
Romantic ideas, me and my boyfriend just discovered how much fun it can be playing games on skype, or yahoo. They both have different types of games for two or multiplayers. So even when far apart, you dont have to do just the "calling". It can be boring to just sit and talk and talk every day!
Hope it helps some :)
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reader, LessonsLearned +, writes (4 October 2009):
I'm half inclined to lie to you and tell you this relationship is a good idea to keep you pure a few more years.
But the truth is, relationships are meant to be with real people to develop our abilities to be physically as well mentally intimate. You can't hug a text. You shouldn't kiss your iPhone, people are watching.
You should break up, experience life, love, heartache, and all that jazz now. If he wants to try and repair the relationship on your next visit..you may find you've grown past it.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 I understand, you can't have a relationship if you are not in each other lives. You are getting bored because you are not getting the attention you deserve from him (msn & e-mail don't count) and it's not his fault because he lives too far away.
You are either going to have to try and get closer so you two can meet each other or you can move on. LDR rarely work out because relationships takes work and e-mail/msn can not provide that.
I hope things work out for you, Good Luck!
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