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writes:I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 3 years ago, but still felt something for him and regreted breaking up with him. I still have strong feelings for him, however, he has had relationships after me and he "moved on". I tried to get him out of my life (took about a year and a half) and when I thought I did, he started to talk to me on the internet again and inviting me to places and opening up old wounds. Abouth a month later since the convo's he hasn't said a word to me at college and he doesn't even look at me. It's breaking my heart and I feel like he's leading me on.I want him away but with me at the same time.Should I try and forget him or see if there is still anything there?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
You need to focus on yourself, so yoou can decide on what you want to do. Stop letting him lead you on and spend more time with your own friends and getting to know yourself. You'll be far clearer when you feel happier with who yoou are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): I understand exactly what you mean. I am going through kind of the same thing. If you do want to be apart of his life then you should tell him how you feel. If you don't want to be with him but want him to be apart of his life, maybe you can just try to be friends with him. I think you just need to figure out exactly what you want and then do it. I hope I can do the same, good luck!
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reader, JoanneBirnie +, writes (4 October 2009):
i had the same problem with someone i thought i loved
In the street he didnt even look at me...
but on the net he was constantly emailing me and telling me he loved me i got so confused and then i realised if he loved me then why the hell isnt he with me and why would he feel strange looking or talking to me in the real world..
we had children and he still ignored me and them outside but as soon as i got home within minutes id have a email telling me i was his world..
he drove me so crazy i had a bit of a breakdown...
now i delete any emails without even reading them and im very happy with my new bloke..who isnt scared to look at me or touch me outside..
trust me move on it is possible
Joannexxx
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