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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am feeling like a prized idiot and I need some helpful advice.This is quite long, sorry.Everyone knows you should never get involved with someone at work but my head was tunred by this guy I work with, he is the first guy ever that I have liked, I like everything about him. I don't have many friends at work, infact probably only one, everyone else seems to dislike me because I am shy and quiet and this guy always cheered me up and made me feel good about myself. I just thought he was being nice I never thought he fancied me until one day we were working late and he kissed me, I was thrilled, although not overly happy that it was at work, when I suggested we went out, he didn't reply and nothing happened. I had my doubts that this guy could have a girlfriend but because I liked him, I never had the guts to ask him if he did or not - big mistake I know. Anyway, a month later me were on seperate nights out and we bumped into each other and ended up kissing again, and I wasn't drunk so I can't use that as any excuse. He has text me and said we should do it again.I must say now that he is leaving the company at the end of the month and he is using up his leave, I knew he was leaving because he told me and said he would keep in touch. What I didn't know that he was on holiday now. I overheard some other guys he works with saying that he was away for 2 weeks with his GIRLFRIEND, I know this is silly but I am gutted because I really really like him and we talk all the time and he is always going on how he hates 2 faced people and how he always tells it how it is and that's why we have always got on so well.When he comes back I am not sure how to act around him beacuse how sad I am I actually want him to keep in touch when he leaves.Part of me wants to confront him but then that would show I'm bothered another part wants to see what he says when he comes back, I mean would he tell me he went away with his girlfriend or lies and say he went on a lads holiday.What should I do?I know you probably think I should have more pride and self respect for myself but like I said for some reason I am really into this guy. HELP.Thanks for reading
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): you will only be a prized idiot if knowing all that you now do about the cheating two faced bastard you then decide to have a relationship with him.
you will only have yourself to blame and you can then write in for some sympathy and moral support. you will then go into your affair with eyes open and know the consequences. he has a girlfriend for goodness sake, he is on holiday with her. surely this is enough to stop and say RED FLAG.
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