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writes:Hello. I've three questions I'd like some help with. Thanks in advance for your advice.First, I like two girls. I've been told that this is all normal and fine, and that's well and good, but I can't decide between either one. I'm leaning more towards the one I started liking more recently, b/c we're sort-of-friends, I have more opportunities to talk to her, and she doesn't dislike me (at least, so far as I can tell) like the other girl. Do you think I should wait a bit, pursue both of them at once, or just ask one out or talk to one of them straight away?The second problem is that I don't know how to approach the subject w/the more recent girl. I told my friend that I like her, and he texted a friend to tell her, who did so, and she says that she's fine w/me talking to her about it, so long as I initiate the conversation, b/c she feels kind of awkward just walking up to me and starting to talk to me about it. Also, there's the fact that we're kind-of-friends, and I don't want to risk what we've already got together, but I want more than what we've got, as well. Peculiarly, if I say "Hi ______" or Goodbye to her, she doesn't respond to me. Also, I regularly talk to her w/my friend in company of us, so it's easy for us to start a conversation. However, I am unsure of how to nudge the conversation in this direction, especially if I intiate it, as my friend usually starts talking and brings me into it. So, my second question is simply; How should I talk to her, or at least start talking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009): The second girl said that she was fine as long as you initiate the conversation, I.E. she's like you but she is scared that you will reject her if she comes up to you! Be a man and go up to her about it x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
You need to get to know both of these girls far more that you do now. At this stage, if you're undecided, then you don't know enough at all about either of them. Get to know them both more without romance. If you're still undecided, then neither girl is for you.
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