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writes: Me and my girl friend are close..we're both 15 and we've been going out for a month. We havent done anything sexual and im not pressuriing her..shes not pressuring me either. We just hug,kiss/makeout/and cuddle. But lately she's been wanting to see my penis. And i wanna do it but im kinda scared about the whole idea. Im kinda insecuure and dont know what she'll think. And im worried that the reason shes asking to see it is becuz im boring her. does anyone have any thoughts?
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reader, Candleman +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Hey buddy. It's not because you are boring that she is wanting to see it. She is seeking to explore her sexuality, and this is one of the next steps in her eyes. In fact, if anything, this just means she is really into you.
I remember a friend of mine when I was 15 came to me all freaked out and was like "Dude, she doesn't want a finger anymore, she wants the real thing!!!"
And, she wasn't bored with him. Hell, they stayed together for like a year or something after that. (In case you're wondering he got condoms and they lost their virginity.)
Its just normal. You have all those hormones raging and the next logical thing is to take it to the next level. For you it will be showing each other your private body parts and once you go there then, well, I'll spare the details, but you know what's next.
I don't know if you've watched porn and are freaked out about not having a huge penis or something like that. Trust me, those things on the porn sites are rare. So if you're insecure about that, then don't be. I've seen stats where the average man's penis is 5.5" erect.
But buddy, if you're not ready, then don't do it. You've got a lot of years ahead of you so you don't have to rush into anything.
Good Luck to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009): yes, don't do anything you are not comfortable with. Regardless of her reasons or why you think she wants to see it. In the end you have to do what makes you feel comfortable. Trust me, you have a long life ahead of you and when the time is right you will not have a problem in showing it to the right person.
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