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writes:I am feeling more and more isolated by the day since I last posted my question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mum-has-just-been-diagnosed-with-cancer.html. Thank you to everyone who replied the responses were very balanced and I have reflected on them. I am finding that when I try and express my emotions and feelings to my boyfriend now he is cold I cannot function as a girlfriend it seems sharing my thoughts. The text I got from him last night (which partly refers to my visa application not just the current situ)was "I would just like you to be in a position to say right I'm now going to live in Australia with my boyfriend. Instead your life is giftwrapped in red tape and shit. I really hope that changes. Goodnight. xxx" I think his text is cruel under the circumstances because he knows I cannot change what has and is happening. I have had little sleep after receiving this and feel pretty worthless. Am I just being insensitive or is my relationship effectively over?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 That text is extremely cruel and shows how selfish he is. He doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve this, especially at such a difficult and trying time in your life. I think you need to lose the loser, you don't need added stress in your life. You need someone supportive, who can make you smile and take you to a happy place when you're around them. Not bring you farther down and make you feel worthless.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
Wow! Who is this guy? He doesn't care about you or your family. He should at least be understanding, and he's not. This relationship sounds like it's completely doomed. If he isn't listening to you about this, what's he going to be like in the future? What will he be like if you have kids? I know this is going to hurt you, but I think you'd be better splitting with this guy. Don't let him control you and make decisions about your life.
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