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writes:ok a few months ago a girl joined my school, and i have never been attracted to girls before but i really fancy her, am so confused i dont no if its normal to fancy a girl, she talks to me a lot now and we have become friends and we hug each other in a friend way but i have still hiden this secret from her, am just so confused should i tell her or should i keep it to myself if you could give some advice that would be great :) x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): confused56 give great advice... short, simple & clean... this gives her the oppurtunity to say yes or no, and let's her know you want to stay freinds if it's no...
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reader, confused56  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Well, it might be best to be upfront with her. It may be hard and embarassing but try and do it in a non intrusive way. Say something like, I don't want to ruin our friendship or anything, but I have to be honest I do have some feelings for you, more than just friends and I would like to know how you feel about this. Then go from there.If she is a good enough friend, it shouldn't get in the way of your friendship if she doesn't feel the same as you do.
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