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writes:Hey everyone, in my past I was always that chubby kid, and yeah, I had popular friends, and soon found out that ANY popular kid who hangs out with a non-popular kid is only doing it because, in comparison to you, they are ALOT more attractive and such, and they seem nicer to girls because they are hanging out with that pudgey kid because he has no friends, so what I did is dropped out of public school and started going to an online school, so I can have more time to lose weight and get in shape, well, I have succeeded, but now raises more problems, girls... How in the hell to I talk to them, think a bout it,I have been relation starved since like 2nd grade, always being that fat kid, I have been a "non-sexual" entity in female eyes since 2nd grade, I am now 16 and am still a virgin, pathetic eh? Please help what do I do get girls to like, me, how do I talk to them, etc... All help appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Code Warrior, good advice there. you wanna know what's pathetic? me. i'm 20 going on 21 next month & i'm STILL A VIRGIN! never even kissed a girl. now THAT'S PATHETIC my friend. so compared to you, you're not pathetic
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
You have to come across as confident and mature if you want the right girl to be interested. As for talking to them, you need to ask them about themselves. Get them talking first, and when they open, you;ll feel more and more comfortble. Start there.
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