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*endra0589
writes:Okay I'm 20 years old and my family marks my every move. Today I went to visit my oldest sister and it was a mistake. Her boyfriend is a big trouble maker and she believes everything he says. One of his friends had a digital camera he wanted to sell. So I was interest in purchasing it but I wanted to inspect it first. So my sister's boyfriend and I went to his friend's house to look at it.After looking at the camera I didn't want it. Once we got there another one of his friends was there that I once liked and conversated with. We started to talk and my sister's boyfriend and the other guy took at walk down the road.He started trying to kiss all over me and I told him no. We were standing outside of my car just chopping it up when my sister comes out of no one and makes her boyfiend get in the car. After all that happen I told the guy I would see him another time and left. She later called me telling me how her boyfriend told her that I had sex with the guy and gave him oral sex which was a lie. She even told me things that I didn't know she knew like me going to see this guy a few months ago which no one knew about but the guy, me and her boyfriend. Her boyfriend was the one who introduced us. She believes everything he says. She even asked me why was I texting and calling him which is a lie. I only called and texted in regards to get info about his friend which I guess was wrong. I believe she thinnks I like her boyfriend. I would never do something like that to her. Her boyfriend told her lies and now I look like the fool. Why won't they give me space I'm grown.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
Your sister is going to end up hurt by the relaionship she is currently in. Just let her carry on, she'll soon see taht there is someting wrong. You just need to focus on yourself. Keep your self respect and hold your head high. You havn't done anything wrong at all. As for any of your family memebers asking about your movements, just say politely that although you appreciate their concern, your life is yours to live and that is it. Keep repreating that and they will eventually get the message.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (3 October 2009):
 There's not really much you can do. If your sister wants to believe him over you, you've got to chalk it up. Just conduct yourself with respect and you'll have nothing to be ashamed of. Let silly ass rumors and innuendo slide off your back.
Good luck.
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