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How can I be "touchy" with my girlfriend?

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Question - (3 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I am in need of some advice. SO the thing is that I', a little shy doing some things with my girlfriend. We've been going out for almost 10 months now and havent really done anything sexual...I know, might be a shocker to alot of you out there that read this, and I am not like most other guys that that's all they want. So the thing is I need advice on how I should be touchy with my girlfriend. I am pretty sure she wont mind most or all of what I would do; the farthest we've gone is her taking my shirt off while we're making out and on a different occasion feeling down each others shirts. She said she didn't mind me doing that, but I still was unsure. Do you think that she would like it if I felt around her? If so, how far do you think I should take it? Would it be best to ask her what she likes, even though I think it would even though I'm a little shy with those things I would talk openl to her about it. Any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009):

Well if she likes it stick to it. Also get more courage try new things.

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A male reader, LessonsLearned United States +, writes (4 October 2009):

Just take it easy. This is a sign that your not ready for sex just yet. Which is good cause your too young anyway. When the time is right you'll know. Just be sure there is some kind of contraception like condoms or get her on the pill first.

You don't have to ask how far to take it. This is where your at right now and that's okay. When you get a little older you'll take it further on your own.

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