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writes:I am having an issue with my girlfriend. I have been with her for a bit over 7 months. She has facebook. When i first starting dating her, about a month into our relationship, one of her facebook friends left her a comment on one of her pictures saying "sexy motherfucker" .she then left a comment on one of his pictures and it evolved into this conversation. Her:know you curl your lashes!:pHim:nah babe alll natural yep :P so wta if i got better eye lashes then most girls lolHer:please!!!we girls have lash inserts that will kick your lashes ass!Him:hahai dnt veen know wat dat is but ok still natural is always better so errr!!!Her:who cares about natural when you can fake it!Him:true u women fake shit loads including orgasms but we men can fake entire relationships !!!Her;touche!yeah ok!if you like to think sohowever you havent quiet understood yet, so i will lay it down for youfaking an orgasm is equivalent to faking a relationship!!!! women do it just to get it get rid of you, plus we burn more calories by doing so! so its win win situationHim:to get rid of me pffft hunny strap on and go for the ride lol neways bottom line men are superior to women in every single way haha jks jks I LOVE WOMENHer:that line of thought is what gets you in troublethere are more women than men! we will kick your ass anytime, you sexist, ungreatful bitch!!!!!Him:im trembling with fear babe relax stop being a sexist bitch ur da one who thinks women are better than men so watevs loser! neways ur dp is real cute u suld do modeling or sumtng mwa xoxoI didnt make a big deal out of it at that time, didnt even talk to her about it, it was new with me and her and it was none of my business, but now 7 months into this relationship, i find this msg posted on his wall from her, this was the day after she got her license:mr (whatever his name is)... guess who got their Ps today???I know I took my damn time but OMG I'm super excited now. we should prob catch up over a big cup of coffeeNow i wouldnt mind her catching up over a coffee with a guy that i know or a friend of hers, as long as she tells me about it, i am not her boss or dad and i have no right telling her what to do...but not only she is offering to catch up with a guy that i dont know, but a guy that she had this conversation with....and i am really re-considering this whole relationship because of this....what would you do if you where in my situation? any opinions would be appreciated.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Well, how many times do I have to say this ...SOCIAL SITES ARE RELATIONSHIP KILLERS!If there is anything wrong in a relationship, a social site will bring it out. Usually unnecessary drama ensues at them.Uh this reminds me more of the crap I see at Myspace though more than Facebook. I'd report them to the grammar police on principle...LMAOSo do what you want, but take a look around this site especially under the Facebook and Myspace categories. Its littered with stories similar to this...and I am afraid they almost always end badly.best of luck
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Well its flirting in the least I guess. When we're young, its just part n parcel with life! You cant expect someone as young to never speak or flirt with anyone else ever again. You have to trust them and accept thats what will happen. Its a normal road to go down when you're young and discovering yourself.
I'm 38 and couldn't see me dating someone that flirts on line with others, but I'm old! lol
Facebook is ok I guess, but at our age, I would be a tad worried if someone is chatting to all n sundry on different sites on line.
Bit old fashioned like that I guess. I would like to be with someone thats had the ego stroked enough in the past and ready to settle down x
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (3 October 2009):
 I woulnd't dump your girlfriend over this. I understand you're a bit wary of her going out to see this guy but you need to trust her. Would you rather put some trust in her for a day and keep your relationship or dump her to then find out they were just friends?
Maybe have a word with her as well about it. Just tell her you're slightly worried and you don't want to seem bossy or anything, you'd just like to know more about him.
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reader, Justified +, writes (3 October 2009):
 My advice would be if she has never acted out on feelings and you trust her then let her be. They are just friends. As they say your damn if you do and your damn if you don't. This can only lead to you not trusting her at all so early in the relationship. If it is that way then she is not worth it.
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reader, patient66  +, writes (3 October 2009):
The messages arnt too bad, as in they are not hitting on each other. It sounds like they are friends.
I would let it go but If she does go for a coffee with him see if she tells you. Just watch and see if it seems like it is developing into something more then just bitching and joking at each other.
And if it bothers you that much, just be honest with her and tell you how you feel.
Communication is most inportant in a relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
You have to trust her. This sounds like flirting, though it is quite strong. Flirting is okay, so long as she doesn't act on it. You really just have to let her meet him and see what happens. Trust her.
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