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Is there more to it? or is it just sex?

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Question - (3 October 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i am still good friends with my ex and he has moved on but i still feel something for him. although lately he broke up with his girlfriend and he is always texting me asking to meet up for sex. he says we are only friends but i cant help thinking that there is more between us. what do i do, do i ask him about it or do i just leave it and stop meeting up with him.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (3 October 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntListen to him when he says you're only friends. He means it. If he was interested in more than just sex he'd ask for more than just sex. Respect yourself and say no.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009):

That is what he hopes you might think, that there is something more between you. He just wants you to be part of his harem, some girl that is willing to give him some sex to keep getting some crumbs of attention from him.

What a jerk. Tell him to take a hike, and you are too young to be having sex with anyone, it isn't legal.

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A female reader, Rose_red_09 United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

Walk away Sweetie, all he wants is one thing and one thing only.

And you are very young to be having sex - please be careful.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

Blod agony auntStop meeting up with him. I'm guessing he knows how you feel about him. If he says you're "just friends" but then sleeps with you then he's using you. If he cared for you he'd respect your feelings and not mess you about like this. Move on from this.

Good Luck. X

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

First of all, please remember that having sex if you're under 16 is illegal. That said, there is nothing more between you I'm afraid. He's just after using you for sex. Don't degrade yourself. Let him go and find a good guy who respects you.

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