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writes:Me and my girlfriend broke up in may and we had a great sex life. Before I met her I always used to masturbate and had good orgasms and when I met my girl they turned to great! It took me a while to even touch myself again and now I do I don't feel anything when I orgasm. It is over within a second and I don't feel anything and before you say it yep I've made sure I've had one! Just don't know what to do and why I can't feel anything anymore
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reader, xAx +, writes (5 October 2009):
 It's normal for you to be more worried about her when you are having sex. I do that with my boyfriend and i know that he does that with me.
I think that if it were possible, to get back with her. OR just find someone who gets you sexually happy as her. Maybe try something different when masterbating like watching a sexy film or using toys.
Hope this helps X
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Original writer... Thanks for your answers guys. She broke up wit me and yeh I still love her. I love her more than anything and think of her every second of the day. Weird thing was when we actually used to have sex I always was more worried about her and how she was feeling and determined she was gonna have a good time and werent bothered about myself. So now I don't see why its such a big deal with me and my body!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): I agree in a way... I think that your body is just not ready to allow you to feel pleasure yet. This is temporary... give it some time...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): HelloI have experience what you are referring to. You may just be going through the withdrawals of the relationship. It may seem as if its easy and that there will be no side effects. It may be possible you are just going throught the feeling down part of the separation. Of course if you see that it is consuming more time and affecting your social/work etc life you may want to talk to someone. Good luck and make sure you have plenty of people/friends to hang out/talk with.
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reader, xAx +, writes (4 October 2009):
From what you are telling me, you still are in love with her as your body is telling you that it wants her do it. It would really help me if you told me who broke up with who.
Thanks! X
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