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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 16 year old teen.I've been liking this guy from my eight grade..It was a crush then he was liking this other gal..When i was in 10 he proposed me n we got into a relationship.Broke 5 months then on cuz i lied..My mistake i agree..But then hewas never loyal..N there were too many insecurity problems and months later he happened to msg and after a few days we get into a relationship.from then on i happened to make the biggest mistake of my life...I got physical with him.But I haven't had sex.I haven't lost my virginity.The problem is that after so many break ups..Insecurity problems..Possessiveness..We have started totexting..{ after a gap of 3 months }A week or so.But during the period of one week i still remember the mistake i made n i ask him to go away.I feelthat i should get over him next moment i feel whats the big deal to text?I've been so fickle minded.I'm not able to take a right decision.What do u think i should be doing?At times he seems he's caring but the next moment i feel so miserable that i just wanna get off him my mind.One more thing thats been bothering me is when he wants things should go fine but when i want they don't.Y?I happened to ask him th same question n he says I'm wrong.its not like what i think..what do u think he's back for?I've beentrying hard to find these answers.One thing for sure i don't wanna go back.but do u think is it right to stay in touch?
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reader, xAx  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 You keep coming back to him because you are reminded of the good times and have a lot of hope for the relationship. However though, there are more bad times in your case.
From what you have said, you don't want to be in a relationship with him. For you to stop coming back to him and confusing yourself, stop seeing him, before doing even more things that you regret, maybe even sex.
Hope this helps X
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
No, stop contact. The reason you can't get over him is because you're still in contact. You know this man isn't right for you, and you don't want to be with him. Let him go, end contact and find another man.
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