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writes:i want to have a sex with my boyfriend,,and that be my first time...becouse im virgin..and i want it but im afraid...and also i shame my body...i dont know what i do????but i want that:) Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 Why are you ashamed of your body?
Or is it the thought of being naked?
If you're not ready to have sex, then you should wait. I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of, but I can tell you have doubts as to whether this is the right time to have sex. If he is any good, he'll wait until you're ready. There's not rush to have sex. If you're married, I imagine it would be expected, but you have your whole life to have sex and you are single. Just take things nice and slow! :) Hope I helped.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Making love is nothing shameful, and you need to relax and not set your self up to feel guilty or dirty. Sex is fun, and should be something specail.
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 I think pretty much everyone is nervous their first time, its completely natural :)
You shouldnt feel ashamed of your body - your boyfriend is clearly attracted to you already :) Just try to forget about your fears and feel relaxed and comfortable with him - it'll feel a lot better if you do!
Good luck :) xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
If you're sure you're ready, then don't worry about your body. Your boyfriend will like you as you are. But make sure you're ready :) There is no rush
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