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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi im married forhree years after courtship of six long years both of us love each otherr a lot but my problem is that after my baby my weight is increase nnnnnnow i dont look that beautifil other then this i always respect my huby for respecting women but i came ti know that he is attracted toward other women im very possessive abt him it seems that dont love me now he show and try to pretend he owes to me but i can feel his attraction towards other female i want to be like him but i cant is this is my fault that my built is now huge but my heart is still same earlier he used to pamper me but now he makes me feel what are things which are lacking in me in all his love seems to reduced and increased for other girls .i use to work before marriage but now i dont feel comfortable my child all alone he days that i dont want to do anything just scribbing . kindly suggest what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
You need to sit down and talk to him. Ask him why he suddenly feels this way. Tell him that you still love him, but that you have to adjust to a having a baby and that you need time. Reassure him that he's loved, and tell him that you need him to be there for you and to care for you.
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