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writes:hello, i have just lost my vaginity but before we have sex we have for-play so we can get prepared for sex afterwards. The problem is, is that we have had sex 4 times but it still realy hurts! It doesnt feel nice at all and it feels like friction after any longer than 10-15 minutes. could you try and expain what might be wrong with me and how advice on how to make sex less painfull. Thankyou. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Good advice... it shouldn't continue to hurt... but it may take a few more times to allow your body to accomidate him.
Try to relax, tensing up will not help.
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reader, MudSlut  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 Try sex a few more time, maybe more foreplay before would help too. Everyone is different, and you might just still be really tight. A lot of my friends said that it hurt for the first umm maybe 10 times. So time might be all you need. Like i said everyone is different. If its still really hurting after a few more times and you dont know what to do, you should probly ask a doctor.
Good Luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
It will still hurt for a few more times yet, I think (though I am male, so you will hopefully get better help). However, it also sounds like your boyfriend isn't putting enough time into foreplay yet. Spend more time making sure you're fully ready for sex.
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