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writes:Hi I just got this email from an ex bf from 2 years ago, a guy I cheated on then dumped, but later wished I was still with. I'm not sure how I feel about him today as I am seeing someone now. Some of his email seems like it is in code. Can you people tell me exactly what he means? Thanks xxx------------Dear xxxxxI am seeing a comicbook dealer in Nottingham on Friday xxx and will be finished by 7pm. I was wondering if after that you might like to go for a drink as friends. I know this will seem quite odd after some two years passing and things not ending on a good note between us, but I can’t say I have not missed you from time to time. I’m guessing you will probably misinterpret this as being weak. Anyway, if this is the same for you then it could be good to see you again. If on the other hand you would just come out of curiosity, then I’d rather not bother. Hopefully you understand what I mean. Hope you are doing well. xxxx x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): the email is not in code. he wants to see you.
but if you cheated on him before i think he is really a risk taker now isn't he. leave this poor bloke alone, 2 years later and he wants to meet up. i think his broken heart should be left to mend slowly instead of you breaking it all over again.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (6 May 2009):
he missed you darling,
and he must still have some feelings for you,
and he well continue to have these feelings untill he falls inlove agian with someone else,
trust me because i have been there
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): I'm a little confused because it looks like he said just what he meant. If you don't understand, then he gave you a big oppurtunity at the end to say so.
("Hopefully you understand what i mean").
It sounds like he wants to spend some time with you again. This doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be romantically involved again, he may jus miss having you to talk to and hang out with. It's hard to let people go completely sometimes. Even as just friends.
It's simple. If you have genuinly missed him company, then go have drinks with him. If not, then don't. He doens't want to be humoured or to be insincerely acted upon. If you would like to go out, then tell him
"sure it would be nice to see you agian. I am in a relationship and just want to be friends, but if you're willing to be friends again and let the past go, then i would be happy to go with you."
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): Sounds like he wants to start up all over again, but if you only want to see him for old times' sake, with no hope of any future romance he'd rather not, because he wants more than a simple hello / goodbye.
He might have worded it rather more delicately though!
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