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writes:I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc.How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full of himself and not overly good looking, not snobby, not arrogant, not a guy who would cheat on me for someone younger and better looking. And I definitely don't like guys who are over confident in theirselves or too good looking, a guy who is nice looking not gorgeous, handsome or cute, just a nice decent guy. I'm very unlucky with guys, it stresses me that I always pick the wrong guy and always end up alone, because Ii always pick a guy who is out of my league always. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): Well firstly you should stop looking so hard. People tend to find the wrong person when they go off looking for it, because often their more desperate and lower their standards. Just wait. Wait for someone to come to you. Maybe he'll ask you out or maybe it'll just be a friend who will eventually turn into a romantic relationship. If you have bad luck so far with guys, then you may want to start your relationships off as friendships, since your first judgement of them may not be accurate to who they really are. (I don't think you would like a guy who you knew was am arrogent cheater, would you?)
If you have a good friendship however, then you'll get the oppurtunity to see who they really are and spend some time with him, without getting too involved and without getting hurt. Once you know him, you either will or will not want a relationship. Just slow down and be patient and try to stop hunting.
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reader, Jaydee...Rawr  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Try not to put yourself down, no guy is out of someones league, if they think they are then they are just big headed nobs and they dont deserve you, Most guys are Up their own arses to be fair, Go out with your mates and see if you see any decent blokes looking at you and go over and see how it goes, maybe you might find someone decent...Thats all the advice i can think of really, hope I helped xx
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