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writes:a few months ago i had this really hot one night stand with this guy he called me 6 times over the next week. i blew him off made up stupid excuses and stuff like that. so lastnight my recently dumped friend made me go out. this one of my exs was telling me about a party so i said fuck it. sooo thats one night stand was there. LOOKING HOTTER THE HELL and so i was talking to him and i hadnt put one and one together. i made a fool of my self untill he clued me in so we kinda just picked up where we had left off. sooo any ways i had told him i didnt want to sleep with him untill i was happy in a relationship so he said he would wait. and then asked me out. so i said yes. but i havent gotten over my ex of 2 years. my ex moved so i dont have to see him but still i still have pictures of him and all that stuff and i feel like im really rushing in to a new relationship with this guy. do i keep dating him the way things are or do i tell him maybe we should get to know each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): Anything is possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): even if you dont' get in another relationship, you should still get your ex out of your system, it's for your own good and good for the next guy that comes along. the faster you do it, the faster you'd be able to move on and be happy with someone else. one night stands can turn into a relationship, who says they can't? I've had one night stand and I more often than not don't call her back. so feel good that he didnt forget about you
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reader, viethuni228  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Well u should always be honest tell him upfront that u like him and u wanna get to know him but at the same time ur not over your ex. Let him know what's goin on don't just leave him in the dark, that just starts u off on the wrong foot. As for your feellings i understand it's hard to get over someone after that long. But you still gotta give this one a chance. Ur always not gonna b over him until u find someone else to fill that spot he had in ur heart. Don't dwell on the past. Give others a chance their realli not all the same.
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (6 May 2009):
 I would be honest with him. If you like him and would like to try a relationship honesty will answer your question. Tell him how you feel and that you want to take things slow cause you do like him and would like to get to know him better. If he wants to get to know you and really likes you he will understand and you may have found a keeper. If he doesn't you have your answer. Love is a risk but we have to be willing to take that risk or live with out. The other thing you can do is have a FWB (friend with benefits)) I would only suggest that if you are still having trouble letting go of your ex. You don't want to ever forget love but if its over you have to be willing to let go and move on. If your not ready you can always have a FWB to help you through but either route you take be upfront so that person knows what he's is getting and not surprised later. Hope this can help
Miah
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with just enjoying each others company. You need to get over your ex, get rid of the pictures and things like that!!!! Stop dwelling, life is too short! X
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