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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hiya I need help please!Love seems to be a mystery to me at the moment. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of a year five months ago, and still mulling over why we actually parted ways. We are still fantastic friends but he wants me back- for good, which scares me, I'm not ready to settle down. The reason we broke up was mainly due to lack of money and seeing each other was becoming difficult. In reality, he is amazing. He's intelligent, ambitious, confident, witty, loving, a tad cocky. When I'm with him I can't help but be affectionate towards him. He's the perfect package though, in the harsh light of day, he's average looking. I believe myself to be very shallow and superficial, yet I've no idea why. I can't stop it, I keep wondering what our children would look like which is an insane thing to do, what society deems attractive, if there's anyone better. Why am i acting so insecure? It's not as if I'm uber special!Here is a photo of myself and him for your own reference (I think he looks a little like Jason Statham) Please look:http://s16.photobucket.com/albums/b47/xxlucexx/?action=view and current=mosaic7940035.jpg
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 May 2009):
 I didn't look at the photo, just before I answer the question I thought I had to tell you. ...so I think that you should be upfront with him and tell him exactly what you want, which sounds like an exclusive relationship but not with long term commitment, you just want to live for the day and let the relationship flow naturally. I think you are shallow about looks and if you continue to be like this you will end up lonely when you are old! And I think that's one thing most people are scared of, so stop being picky! You are young, so just enjoy each others company and take it from there! X
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