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writes:I'm just coming out of a long 9 month relationship with this girl. Everything was going great for a long time. Until recently we've had tough schedules and just weren't able to see each other that often. By the time we split up, it had been 2 months since we saw each other face to face. We met a little over 9 months ago, at the sleepaway camp we work at, and now in June we'll be working together every day again. All of our close friends say she just thought we faded, but she is unhappy about ending it, and they all think we will get back together over the summer. Even though we are broken up we still talk fairly often and its as though nothing has changed. What's up?/What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): I`m in the same boat actually.
You were not used to seeing this girl a lot of the time as you were away a lot so it may be difficult having to see her everyday when you work together. It may also get irritating as though you are not used to being around each other.
Are you still interested in getting back with her?
If so, then is this a trial period you are working together with her or is it longer than a year or something?
I would think about if you are going to be all loved up for a while that you are working together but then go back to being the same as you were once you stop. Think about whats best for the both of you.
Do you want to be with her?
You sound as though you have a pretty good friendship with her and its a risk to try and get back to as it was. Do you want to be with her enough to risk that?
Just have a think about what you want and then talk to her.
good luck
xx
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