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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have known this guy for about a year now and we ended up kissing one night when we first me. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I stayed friends with him because we have mutual friends and found out that he sleeps around a lot. At 23, he has had over 35 partners and didnt use a condom with 20 of them. He was in a threesome with his best friend and they ended up filming it. He is so dirty and really disrespects women so why am I attracted to him? I know will never have sex with him, mind you, I just want to hug him and kiss him all the time. Why do I feel this way?
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reader, siiLviia  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Maybe because he kinda seems like a bad boy?
I think every single girl has liked a bad boy at least once.
Like when there's this cute guy in a TV show and he's all shy and you go "Aww how sweet!" but then comes this guy who's just like "Hi" and kisses the girl deep and passionate and you go "Damn. Hot."
It sounds weird I dont think I made myself clear haha.
Point is, maybe you are attracted to him because of that.
Ohh or maybe it is everything else about him? Physically and emotionally. Or his personality... That sounds a little better than the whole bad guy thing haha sorry.
Good luck and let us know :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): I don't know exactly,
But probably has something to do with him being wanted by a lot of other females. Common law of attraction. The more a guy (or girl) is perceived to be pursued by the opposite sex, the more attractive they are perceived as being.
Sounds redundant, but true.
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